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See age of husband and wife antagonism, conflict is still an eternal problem. Accordingly, in marriage, the ancients often chose to marry people of the right age, so life is still more convenient than taking the age of the pulse. If two years of age are compatible, doing business is easier. However, if two people really love each other but their ages are in conflict, if they get married, they will have to suffer the consequences for life, or pretend to have failed businesses, and dangerous children? The following article will help you to partially resolve the conflict between husband and wife.
How to resolve the age conflict between husband and wife
In fact, it has been proved that in the family, the age of the husband and wife is only one factor, but what age depends on the birth of the child? It is the child who has a decisive impact on family happiness in life. Spousal age is just one factor. A child that is compatible with his mother in terms of life and chi and with his father in terms of heaven will still be rich and happy. And the youngest child (the last one) decides the fate of the family!
There are many cases, what about the 2nd or 3rd tall girl in her husband's life? In the old days, it was customary to process the bride 2-3 times. Choose a beautiful date and time to conduct the procession. In fact, this is also a way to clear the mind. When picking up the bride, do the ceremony in front of the ancestral altar. The bride will stay at her husband's house in accordance with the obligations of a daughter-in-law, and can leave on her own the next day without asking her husband's parents or anyone else's permission. It's like leaving her husband once. On another day, the groom's family continued to get married to ask for the bride and do the same procedures as a normal wedding. (The last wedding can choose a beautiful day, a beautiful time to conduct).
What about the situation where the husband and wife are incompatible with each other, when one person dies, the other person lives alone for the rest of his life? This situation is not without, many unmarried couples that the groom's parents have vehemently banned just because "the general killed her husband" or the teacher said no. In this case, the couple will still carry out normal legal procedures, that is, go to the ward to register their marriage according to the law properly, hold a grand wedding, and then return to live together. But especially, must skip the step of asking for a bride and informing the ancestors of both sides that they are married. That is, legally two people are still husband and wife, but are not recognized as husband and wife by ancestors or gods. This also affects some things such as in sacrifices, the wife is not named in the family name, not recognized as a daughter-in-law by the ancestors.
For the remaining cases such as carving destiny, matching the age of husband and wife according to the natural impulse, earth chi, palace, blind birth leading to a boy and a girl, unfaithfulness, harsh words, or quarrels, ... then use it again. to feng shui to reduce conflicting factors. Due to the limitation, the article only mentions how to resolve the Conflict of the Earth Chi in the Four Elements
1. Dissolve the conflict between the Rat and the Horse
Rat and Horse are considered one of the most opposing pairs in Chinese horoscopes. If the birth time and elements of this couple are not compatible, they should not be combined. The free spirit of the Horse collides too strongly with the patriarchal personality and colorful hobbies of the Rat. Furthermore, the Horse lacks the drive and ambition to attract the Rat.
The Horse's impulsiveness only attracts the Rat at first, but when the affection fades, it becomes the cause of disagreement. Their attitude is to fight with each other, their five elements are Water and Fire, so they will clash violently. Because both are yang, no one is willing to give in.
To reduce the negative consequences of this incompatibility, you need to examine the effects of the five elements on the relationship between the Rat and the Horse.
The element of the people born in the year of the Rat is Thuy, and the element of the people in the year of the Horse is called Fire. According to the five-element interaction cycle, Water meets Fire. Therefore, the Rat tends to dominate the Horse. But because the Horse has a very free spirit and independence, any control of the Rat is met with fierce resistance and controversy in the Horse.
Remedy measures
To neutralize this temperamental conflict, find the areas in your home that correspond to these 2 years and strengthen those areas with the element of mutuality.
The area of the Rat in the North, the Horse in the South. Place a wind chime (Kim element) in the area of the Rat and a pot of bonsai (the element of Wood) in the area of the Horse. The strengthening of the luck of both should be accompanied by a process of softening the incompatibility.
Another solution is that people born in the year of the Rat should enhance their luck by wearing white clothes or wearing jewelry bearing feng shui symbols, preferably a ring with the image of Song Hy. People born in the year of the Horse should wear red or green clothes.
2. Dissolve the conflict between Ox and Mui
Resentful and easily resentful are obvious from the relationship between Ox and Goat people. The temperaments of the two are completely different.
Ox is a straightforward person who does not waste time on love affairs. Meanwhile, Mui is more emotional. It is easy for them to see each other as wrong and on the wrong track. Both of them have high ambition and motivation, but due to their different temperaments, it is difficult for them to go together.
Usually Ox people like to use their logical thinking and want to judge for themselves. Meanwhile, Mui likes to be consulted and listen to other people's opinions. The stubbornness of both hinders their relationship, so the relationship is more confrontational.
Ox and Goat are both of the Earth element, so when they combine, they will create too much Earth energy, and will arise disadvantages in many different directions.
Remedy measures
In marriage, these 2 years are difficult to combine. However, if they are determined to get married, or are already married, feng shui still has solutions to help both reduce conflicts in life.
For example, when a person born in the year of the Water Ox and a person born in the year of the Earth Horse get married, there will be a lot of Earth energy between them. You can reduce this energy by hanging metal wind chimes in your home, especially in the 2 areas corresponding to the Ox and the Goat.
3. Dissolve the conflict between Tiger and Than
Tiger and Monkey are both yang, when paired, their lives will be filled with adventure, along with abundant energy and intense emotions. Their love is full of passion and difficulties with many breakups and reunions.
This is, so to speak, a relationship of love and disharmony, in which discord will prevail as long as they live together. They constantly combine cunning and defiance - no one gives in to the other. Both are thinking for themselves, determined and disagreeable. Given the incompatible nature, it is likely that this union will break up in hostility. Both are poor losers in their relationship. Conflict causes them to become depressed. In the event that the relationship has progressed, it is because they understand each other's strong and outgoing personalities.
Gradually belongs to the Wood element, the Body belongs to the Kim element. Kim controls Wood. In this case, Than plays a dominant role in the relationship. The fiery temper of the Tiger does not match the ingenuity and ingenuity of Than. Their relationship will therefore inevitably have disagreements.
The combination of people born in the year of Tiger - par Mo and people born in the year of Monkey - par Tho is said to be better because they have the support of elements. Tiger people benefit from the power provided by the Wood element, while the Monkey person is powered by the Earth element, Earth gives birth to Metal. The compatibility of the five elements gives this combination a chance of success, contributing to bringing strength and energy to both.
Solution:
For the Tiger - Body pairs with other elements, the incompatibility can be reduced by letting the lights shine in the direction of the Tiger (East-Northeast) and the direction of the Body (West-Southwest). This will improve their relationship somewhat.
4. Dissolve the conflict between the Rabbit and the Rooster
In terms of personality, the uprightness and straightforwardness of the Rabbit easily make the Rooster frustrated. Meanwhile, the pride and conceit of the Rooster makes the Rabbit angry. The Rabbit is humble while the Rooster is smug, thinking he knows it all. These conflicts make the relationship of the two people unable to go far.
According to the horoscope, the Rooster and the Rabbit are in conflicting positions, each of which is affected by the negative from the poisonous arrows of the other. Thus, the two will show all the worst of each other. The inherent reticence of the Rabbit turns into an attitude of indifference and contempt. Meanwhile, the boastful, arrogant Rooster becomes increasingly annoying and obnoxious.
If these two people don't live together, or don't interfere in each other's internal affairs, then they can be good friends. But when they are married, they are easily discordant and look down on each other. Worse, the marriage life between the Rabbit and the Rooster can be nothing more than a mediocre relationship.
The Rooster belongs to the Kim element, the Rabbit belongs to the Moc element. Kim and Moc are opposite. In this relationship, the Rooster plays the role of controlling and controlling the Rabbit, or at least tries to be. The question is whether the Rabbit accepts the leadership position of the Rooster or not. Based on the horoscope, this is unlikely to happen. As a negative animal, the Rooster does not assert his role and prestige in ruling the Rabbit - also in yin.
Remedy measures
To improve this relationship, both need to be properly enhanced energy based on the characteristics of the five elements. Specifically, Rooster people should wear gold jewelry, Rabbit people should use a lot of green. In addition, both men and women will have good luck when wearing jade.
5. Dissolve the conflict between the Dragon and the Dog
People born in the year of the Dragon and the year of the Dog are inherently incompatible. Neither of them find each other attractive. The Dragon is fierce and impulsive, not suitable for the Dog's cynical and mocking nature. Their conversations easily lead to frustration and anger.
According to the horoscope, the Dragon and the Dog are two animals that directly confront each other's poisonous arrows, so they are in conflict. The Dog despises the thoughts and opinions of the Dragon. And of course, Thin could not be satisfied with the non-cooperation of the Dog. This combination is typical for personality conflicts. There is little sympathy between two people, anger and discord easily make both of them hurt.
Dragon and Dog are both yang, the predominance of yang energy highlights their discord. At the same time, the aggressive nature of the two is increasingly revealed. If the time of birth does not ease their mood, they will most likely have to break up.
According to the horoscope, marriage between people born in the year of Dragon - par Fire and people born in the year of the Dog - par Kim, will not be happy. In addition, the relationship between the people born in the year of the Dragon - par Moc and the people born in the year of the Dog, destiny Kim, also brings bad luck to both. The Dragon age is weakened, the Dog age is consumed. In general, the year of the Dragon and the year of the Dog should not be combined.
Remedy measures
For married cases, the solution to reduce conflicts is to place a water bottle in the compass direction corresponding to the Dragon zodiac sign - Southeast direction.
In addition, it is also possible to place the symbol of the element of Water near the gate, with the meaning that the water will contain all the anger and unhappiness of the two people.
6. Dissolve the conflict between the Snake and the Pig
Snake and Pig are considered one of the worst combinations of the horoscope, there is almost no compatibility between these two years. Snake and Pig never have the same opinion. They disagree on many fronts. Whatever one person does for the other is not appreciated, it's just a waste of time, effort and money. Therefore, their intentions, no matter how good, cannot protect this relationship from conflict and unhappiness. They constantly misunderstand each other's motives and intentions, eventually both giving up all efforts to get together.
Between these 2 years, there is no sympathy and sharing. Normally, the Pig is very considerate and kind, but all these good things become trivial and meaningless to the arrogant and arrogant Snake. In contrast, the good intentions of the Snake for the Pig are also considered by the Pig to be boastful, conceited, unclear, and lack of clarity. Both only see each other's flaws.
This is further demonstrated by the conflict of the five elements. If only considering the five elements of the earth chi, the Snake belongs to the Fire element, and the Pig belongs to the Water element. Water carving Fire. In this relationship, flexibility and tolerance are just the surface to hide the disagreements and anger inside.
People born in the year of the Snake (the Fire element) and those of the Pig (the Kim element) are advised not to get married. Their actions can bring luck but not happiness for each other. Both cannot understand each other.
Solving solution
If you are married, the best way to help the Rat - Pig couple reduce conflicts is to increase the amount of punishment corresponding to each age. Plant trees in the south (or south-east direction) to increase energy for people born in the year of the Snake. Meanwhile, people born in the year of the Pig will enjoy many benefits by using lights in the North-Northwest direction.
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